Re: Breaking the fast
Motherweary,
First off, congratulations! You did very well!
Secondly, "I am the creator of my world, and as long as I choose to allow bad things in it, I will suffer. By that extension, if I am choosing bad things, I must want to suffer, which of course I do not, and so the inevitable solution to achieve the desired results, is to rid myself of bad things - or at least those which would cause me harm."
"Bad" is subjective, a matter of One's perspective. With that said, as long as you believe it is 'bad' then it will definitely harm you. IF you enjoy your coffee and take away the 'bad' name for it, it MAY not (depending on your belief) 'cause harm'.
Until you choose to release coffee from your lifestyle, In Joy it, relish it, drink it...with NO worries surrounding it. Do as you desire, without holding regrets, because then you hold yourself in a space of...I am bad because this is bad for me. Lighten up on yourself and In Joy what you choose.
Peace,
Beth