Can't have sex at night

Hi Melissa,

I'm so glad there is a forum to which I can finally ask this question!

I can't have sex at night, and it's ruining my sex relationship. For one, it wakes me up and I always have a terrible sleep afterwards, if at all, which then means I can't work properly the next day and feel exhausted. Two, I rarely even feel like it. The only time I do feel like it is in the morning, which is not very practical, and will be an even greater issue when I have kids. Do you have any suggestions as to why and how I can improve this?

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