Can't have sex at night 
#51313
18 y
5,024
MoreHi Melissa,
I'm so glad there is a forum to which I can finally ask this question!
I can't have sex at night, and it's ruining my sex relationship. For one, it wakes me up and I always have a terrible sleep afterwards, if at all, which then means I can't work properly the next day and feel exhausted. Two, I rarely even feel like it. The only time I do feel like it is in the morning, which is not very practical, and will be an even greater issue when I have kids. Do you have any suggestions as to why and how I can improve this?
Thanks so much!
More
- Re: Can't have sex at night AskMelissa
18 y
4,242
MoreThis is a reply to # 119,349What time at night do you normally have sex? I usually recommend that couples have sex before 11pm, as the adrenal glands can go into overdrive if we are active beyond that time. If you must have sex late at night, a strong cup of chamomile tea immediately afterward (two tea bags per cup steeped for 10 minutes) can be helpful in calming down your system so you can get some sleep.
Melissa- Re: Can't have sex at night #51313
18 y
3,862
This is a reply to # 119,354Thanks Melissa, I'll try that. It's hard to get my boyfriend to be before midnight! Is it normal for females not to feel like it at night?
- Re: Can't have sex at night AskMelissa
18 y
4,049
This is a reply to # 119,355Yes, it's very normal, especially at certain times of our menstrual cycles. Tell your boyfriend that your sexual energy will be stronger earlier in the evening and that it will be better for him if he can try adjusting to your cycle.
Melissa- Re: Can't have sex at night #51313
18 y
3,839
- Re: Can't have sex at night AskMelissa
18 y
4,011
- Re: Can't have sex at night AskMelissa
18 y
4,011
- Re: Can't have sex at night #51313
18 y
3,839
- Re: Can't have sex at night AskMelissa
18 y
4,049
- Re: Can't have sex at night #51313
18 y
3,862
- Re: Can't have sex at night prosperous
18 y
3,959
This is a reply to # 119,349I feel exactly the same way, same problem - don't feel like it at all when I go to bed at night, and if I do do it to make my bf happy, I ruin my sleep, I am exhausted ready to fall asleep before sex, but afterwards it can take me hours to fall asleep. Then I feel mad that I am not getting enough sleep and will be tired the next day.
I always feel in a mood early evening or in the middle of the day.
So you're not alone. Hope you can get your boyfriend adjust to you a bit more.- Re: Can't have sex at night #51313
18 y
3,791
This is a reply to # 119,361Thanks, that is nice to know. How do you cope with it? Do you have kids?
- Re: Can't have sex at night prosperous
18 y
3,643
This is a reply to # 119,361No, I don't have kids.
What I try to do is to initiate sex when I am in the mood, like early evening, so then when it's time to go to sleep, we already did it and I can just go to sleep. Try that.
- Re: Can't have sex at night #51313
18 y
3,791
- Re: Can't have sex at night AskMelissa
18 y
4,242
Share:
Translate This Page: