There is nothing foolish or stupid in liking someone more than they seem to like you. In fact, its a very innocent feeling and it is the way it is. However when I read your post a couple of thoughts crossed my mind. I believe the other post by gilda is very true. If she said or showed that she doesnt want to get serious, then she might just need the time and it sounds reasonable. Maybe she just isnt ready for it and believe me, there is nothing in the world you can do about that. It's what you call bad timing. It doesnt mean she doesnt like you, which explains the looks and the words but she seems to be on top of what she needs and that seems to be not get involved at the moment. Honestly, its hard for you- i can see that- give her the space and time, back off- if there is anything more to her feelings she will come to you when she is ready. You cannot control anothers emotions and she hasnt mislead you. Its your wish to manipulate the situation that leads to the game playing that you said you hated. Sometimes things are outside of your control and I am sure you would be great with her but maybe its not meant to be.