Re: Love is never stupid

Nor is compassion

Communication of expectations ( which AA will tell you expectations will cause resentments)

But clear communications in sexual and intimate relationships are the key to understanding compassion and love.

If he can't be clear, even in marriage counseling, then you may want to get clear within yourself.

Either way all legal relationships have ramifications that are not only emotional

Good for you on the marriage counselor

All is perfect just the way it is for you and he.

The outcome is perfect also

Life doesn't always look like we'd like, but I guarantee you that it is perfect for you and your husband to be bringing this to the surface now