Re: Dating question - confused

Monica, you crack me up :-)

That PERFECT man, of course he is available, and of course he is there.

The reason he has not showed up is because you are focusing on what you don't want too much (short men) .. I'm laughing now :-)

"How do I know if this is just a conditioned belief of mine anyhow - how do I know it is not what my Ego says because it does care about what others think?"

It's a preferance. All preferance is conditioned from the contrast you live. And that's ok. There is nothing wrong with preferance. All those that say there is something wrong with having an ego are afraid of their egos. The ego is a unified field of identity, that's all. Make peace with your ego, otherwise you are going to start throwing too many contradictory thoughts. This is LOA, all is good, all is attraction.

You are having a physical human experience.

Ask for what you want as long as it feels good to you, know that you can have it, and just image it into being.