Dating question - confused

I have a question. If I remember correctly Abraham says to go on dates and look only at the things you DO like and appreciate in this person to expand your vibrational escrow. So even if there are things that make you decide it is not a person you are interested in continuing to date, you simply acknowledge that but stay focused on what you DO like. Then the universe will bring you more of that and each date to follow will likely be closer to your perfect mate.

Does this mean we should accept ANY date which is offered even if can tell right away that that person is not someone we would be interested in? For example, if I like a man taller than me, should I even consider going on a date with someone who might be a bit shorter? I happen to be pretty tall and I really want a man taller than me - its what I put on my list of my perfect mate. I happened to meet a guy today who I found attractive and who I had a good feeling about, I really liked how he talked to me, respectful yet showing his interest. But he is like an inch shorter. He asked for my number and I hesitated just because of his height. But something about him made me want to give him my number. So, I ended up giving him my number but also told him I wasnt really looking to date anyone right now. He said that was ok, he would still like to get together. I could tell that he totally likes me LOL. I have been very much in alignment the past days, and just on my way where I met him I thanked the universe for arranging everything for me and bringing me my perfect mate. I am confused as to what to do.

I also wonder what if someone asks you out that you dont feel any chemistry with or who has a habit you do not want, such as smoking for example. Should you still go out on one date to look for things you like in that person and focus on that? In other words, does quantity matter in Abrahams eyes?

Also, I read Eckhart Tolle's book up to chapter 3 and it talks about the Ego. I am wondering how much of what we think we want with our Ego is truly what we want coming from our Conscious Self or Inner Being ? What I am saying is, do you think it is possible that the universe knows that I dont really care about the man being taller on a conscious level, from my Inner Being, and that it is just an Ego thing?

The way I feel about a mans height is that I just love the way I feel when being with him, it makes me feel feminine and makes him feel to me more as a protector. I think I do not care what others think. How do I know this is really true that it is about Me and not about others? If it was about others, it would be an Ego thing.

I hope I made myself clear :)


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