I can relate to you. I wake up every morning and have to shave like a man and it gets old. BUT, I have figured out a way to shave more effectively. First off I use a Mach 3 razor and I change to a new blade at least every 2 weeks if not sooner than that. I make sure the water is really hot and I wet a towel and ring it out then press the steamy towel on my neck, for a few min. I think it softens the hair or something.....???? then I use a unscented lotion and rub it on my neck (thickly) then I shave, rinsing the razor off alot. I also must do this for my chest as well. GRRRRRRRR.... one day I will be able to afford lazor treatment but for now this works for me really well. Also, when I can I will go to the tanning bed, a tan conceals the stubble somewhat. =)