Re: Hm - I disagree :-)

"I wonder what Maya will say :-)"

Yikes .. now I've been put in the hot seat :-)

Well, let's take a look at the core of Sofia's ideas:

Sofia: "daydreaming of a happy life without a slim body for me, without hearing for Ynaig, without money for Beth, without a man for Monica, etc."

Sofia: "It is a deliberate decision to never anymore allow my happiness to be conditioned by that factor."

From what I understood, Sofia is talking about making peace with where you are, not allowing any external or superficial conditions to influence the path to joy.

It's the "I'm X pounds overweight - BIG DEAL!!" "I don't have a man right now .. BIG DEAL!!" "I don't have a big house/castle - BIG DEAL!!!"

I am where I am and that's OK .. it's the reminder of that. And being where you are, you can choose to focus on what is lacking, or making what you have something you appreciate, or for making it a launching pad for where you want to get to ..

My 2 English pennies

Love
Maya X