Hi Maya, thank you for your post!
It's true..everything you said.
I have a lot of issues with intimacy, letting people in, sexual issues, etc.
I suffered something innapropriate as a child. Ive felt embarressment my entire life about not being "right" inside because of childhood traumas that left my sexuality a bit tweaked. (leaned more towards fetish type things for sexual fulfillment and only recently, the the past few years have I learned to let people close enough to learn how to find sexual fulfillment in sharing my body with another).
So I have all these underlying issues, you are right. KNowing more about my situation, can you suggest some thoughts/feelings/phrases to tap on? Its the set up phrase Im having the most trouble with in learning eft. I never am sure the right way to word something to tap on the emotion Im feeling, or deep down hidden emotions.