Thanks You got it right on the money$$. I must say that I am a 22 year old virgin and thats by choice. I had my times of losing my virginity to "random" guys but I figured why not with someone special right? This guy is someone that is totally different from the rest. First and foremost he is a church boy which means he has morals. He only had sex one time with someone and hadnt had sex within these past 2 years. So i guess that moment him and I both were dying for some physical connection i guess..Lol. Anyway, I talked to him about it and told him how I felt. I said I feel alittle cheap now that we did what we did and he basically told me that he doesnt like me no less and the sparks are still there. We did what we did and thats the past and we gotta just move forward which what he said is true. I just dont want something like that to happen AGAIN. well no time soon of course. I already know in the back of my mind that he is "the one" to be my first and possibly my only. He talks about me being his wife but I dont really respond back I just smile and say "oh Yeah?" and I think the reason i dont want to be his girlfriend because I KNOW with someone like him, well its a must you are 100% commited. I still have that "single" thingy in me which is starting to fade. Ive been single for over a year and Im seeking for love now.