Re: Carefree teenagers can afford to have "QUIET/quit TIME" and it will not cause consequences.

hello been there done that,
I have read your post twice, but it does not seem to make much sense to me.

May I ask you further explain your view?

Please note that I am not english/american but live in EU and english is my 3rd language, so please try not to rely too much ion the words I choose or the way I put them together to make a reliable analysis.

I want to point out that my daughter has alway been with me most of the time.The babysitter comes once a week or even less than that. She is actually a family member. She is a loving and caring person. I do not rely too much on her.

In my household, my daughter is the 1st to have her meal. Sometimes I join her, most of the times I wait for my husband to come home ( very late) and have lunch/dinner with him. I am close to her as she eats, and help her out with the task. But I find rough to my hsb not to share meals with him too. After all, me and my child share each and every hour of the day while he is at work.

I do not know what causes the aggressive behavior towards toys. I am not a warrior in the sake of (real or stuffed)animals. I am not a strict vegetarian/ vegan. I do not moralize on animal issues and I care much more about human beings, I do agree with you on that. I just want to understand what is hiding behind her behavior. She sometimes attempt to "cook" or " slice" her stuffed pets. She does that on purpose maybe to catch my attention ( I am a bit horrified ). She is mostly
vegetarian and she appears to be shocked when reasoning about the fact that thew animals we eat have been killed.

There might be truth in what you say, but please dig more into that and explain. I did not catch it.



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