I did not read the entire post, due to its fear factorness. I am just commenting on this quote though, that you say.
"The one thing that seems for sure, our God is a jealous God with a capital J. We come as one and we leave as one and had better love God above all others if we don't want to learn hard lessons."
Our God is Not a Jealous God. He is Love, He is not Fear. He is not a Condemning God. He is not a Vengeful God. He is a Loving God, the rest is what fearful humans have chose to claim. The rest is what people who are not in touch with God and His Oneness claims. We are ALL GOD. We come from God. We are His LIKENESS. Therefore, we cannot be anything but Love as is God.