Re: fantasize about being with woman but cant do in real life, help?

"can someone tell me what i am feeling and why i am thinking about this???"

My take: you're over thinking it - don't worry about it. You love your fiance? Cool. Women are sensual. I have found myself to have some attraction to a few women although don't consider myself interested. For those open minded to it, sexuality is generally not either/or, but more on a continuum. Ya might 90% attracted to men and 10% to women. If you're in love with someone you want to be with, it doesn't matter anymore than finding you're attracted to a man. Enjoy the feeling if you like, but there's not much stake to put in it unless you are having second thoughts about your man. Or if you're thinking about changing the nature of your relationship or cheating.

If you think about it, just because a person falls in love, would that mean that suddenly they lose the ability to be attracted to another human being for the rest of their lives? Hardly. I can tell you this. Although I spend little time indulging in those thoughts while my dear husband is away, I do more often now because hell it's been 3 months and I'm still a sexual being - very much so. So I enjoy them and don't worry so much, and I save up my lovin' for his return.

So in short, forgeddaboudit. 'sallgood.