Re: Can anothers vibration affect YOUR own vibration?
"If you are a deliberate creator, no one affects your vibration. If you are creating by default, it seems that everyone affects your vibration."
I understand now. So since most people - who dont know about LOA - create by default they will be affected, and only those.
"Here is another way it seems that we are affected by someone else's vibrations. When someone is in love with us, in their adoration of us, they are very connected with source energy. So, as they direct pure loving positive focus on us, we feel really good. We feel good because we feel source energy coming through them. But if they remove their attention (as is normally the case after a year or so into a relationship) .. or perhaps a better term is "the honeymoon period is over" we feel bad. We feel bad, because we were dependent on the others connection with source, not ours."
Oh do I remember that! I used to be do dependent on my mates focus on me - happy if he was around and depressed when he pulled back. Now I feel good being with myself all the time (I prefer to say with instead of by myself). It also explains why my clients like being around me so much lately - I had a few say that they love coming to see me because I always make them feel better/good. They always leave with a smile now :-)
"In that non attachment to other peoples feelings, we become more deliberate in our creation of how we want to feel and when we want to feel it and therfore what we attract into our lives. And of course, that is a very powerful way of being."
It sure is the most wonderful thing to control your own happyness :-)
Thanks Maya
oxox Monica