Re: In over my head in helping a victim.

Hello,

I think you might be disappointed by my message for I don't have any answers for you.

However from reading your message you came across as very qualified to deal with this. I loved your explanation of virginity, *virginity can never be taken, only given away. A girl can regret having sex, but if she did it willingly, then she gave her virginity away. But if through molestation, rape, etc., then the act may be sexual, but the spirit and soul remains.*

This young person seems to have a rappor with you which she may not easily have with other so called *qualified* persons.

I just wanted to commend you, it is a huge responsibility but you really sound like a natural to me.

Good luck!