This could be an opportunity for healing.
Can you consider calling Mom and telling her
how you feel and saying what you have written,
that connecting and feeling special would really
mean the most to you? I know b-days are important
to me too but not so for everyone. What would be
important is that you be able to ask for what you
need~~ your mama for a minute to say, hey, 27 years
ago TODAY, you came into my life.