Re: boyfriend cheated on me

Yeah, betrayal IS painful, but~~
Deep down, do you really want to be friends
and make yourself miserable watching him kiss
on someone else or *wait* for him to crash
this new relationship so you can "be there
for him" when*ever* he wants your love and
comfort?? Gulp...please tell me you respect
yourself more than to do that. If he does not
respect you now, chances of him professing
an undying love down the road are just big
fantasies. While you are entitled to fantasize,
it sounds to me like a big pile of hurt waiting
to happen.

My 2 cents~~
Cut your losses and cut the relationship ties.
Heal your mind and spirit and become available
for the person who is still looking for you.
If this guy was the ONE, he sure would not be
snuggling up and sharing this woman with his
buds and keeping you on the hook too as his
lady in waiting. Hmmm....does he use condoms
every time he has intercourse?? Imagine what
kind of viruses he may be collecting if none
of his buddies do either. Or if this woman is
loose, how many she may be carrying and gifting
to anyone not smart enough to protect themselves.

Anyway, its your choice to sit around waiting
for crummy leftovers, but I hope you go out
and look for someone who catches your eye and
heart and who would like to enjoy your company
in a satisfying relationship.

best wishes,
Zoe

-_-