Rooth! I think we are kindred spirits... I love to dance too! It is my ultimate connection to the divine, apart from sex! My friend/lover is the person I usually go to see live music with. I am new to town and he grew up here so he knows all the good spots to go. Maybe now that he is out of town I should venture out on my own eh? I really liked what you said about exploring intimacy in other ways. I am a lone wolf and love spending time by myself, but on the other hand, I love to be with people and connect just by a smile. Music brings people together. Thanks for the chat! Going to have an honest chat with my friend/lover and see how things go.
Here's to non-attachment and just good plain fun!