Re: Magic Mirror...
oh please,
I am by no means like her one bit and by no means am I merely 'projecting'.
I was on her side the entire time she started working there,I feel backstabbed and hurt from her little antics today.
I am as far from a brown nosing leech or approval seeking nicey nicey as she is,as a matter of fact I am completely the opposite.I take the matter by the horns and approach it directly,very blunt and to the point.she sits on her hands while 'trying' to get around it while asking ME to do it for her lol.I am pretty aloof,reserved and to my self most of the time and avoid the little cliques at work,I noticed she was the same-a sort of outcast and kinda took her under my wing and helped her out so much,which is something I NEVER do,much less even think about.I mean,I help out here and there but not to this extent,I figure..hey,maybe it's time for a change and let people 'in',I wanted nor expected nothing in return but geez,I didn't expect her to jump ship when I was the one being ridiculed and mocked right there so boldy.
I may talk smack now,but so what? It's not like it's the same as before when we were cool about things,I noticed how she acted before towards others and thought,we were cool we are friends sort of deal and I just accepted her for her..but boy was I wrong lol.
I am NOTHING like her,I have had to do so much for her and even tried to get her to be more assertive and initiative but she just sits on her butt and makes up excuse after excuse and complains about how no one helps her or likes her.I can tell when she wants help cause she'll just sit there hunched over and red faced.
Half the staff are half her age,me included,and are young perky females..real alpha and assertive go getter types,nothing like her.And she has expressed her resentment towards them MANY times because they literally walk all over her..and she LETS them,not only that but she brings even more and more crap the worse they treat her!
I think she thinks that she can get by by leeching onto others and expecting them to accept her or like her because of her good biddings,like bringing in food,treating us to lunch,bringing in little gifts here and there..she gives and gives but there seems to be motives behind it,like she wants just to be accepted and liked but without doing any actual work lol.
she is alot older then me..she should know a little better and try to get a little more work done and take a little more initiative on her part...she sits right next to me and expects me to do everything and get everything for her that she is fully capable of doing on her own,I do somethings but not all for gawd sakes.
she is just a fat lazy old fart.
so how is that like me exactly??? lol..