Re: non-judgement

no, I don't think that you're too judgemental, I think that it's good to question. Especially when upon reading something just doesn't ring true! and, "true", true to YOU. Does that make sense?
I find that my intuition is usually right on, and it's when I try to second-guess my intuition that I'm sorry later.
Appearances, yeah, we all do that, huh? Looking into the eyes is critical, unless my intuition says "stay away"....
Hygiene's important, too, huh? lol... :)