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Hi,
I just stumbled upon this forum.
Forgive me for using my anonymous username, but I always thought I was just a little crazy.
I have to say that both of my children fit this description. My 4 year-old has been identified as possibly gifted, though he has acted attention-deficit in his preschool and extra activities. My 3 year-old has been identified as having "sensory processing disorder", though one of her occupational therepists thought she was just gifted and had a stubborn personality.
When I was younger, I remember having psychic incidents. In college, I remember having at leat two "out-of body" experiences where I was asleep but I traveled around; I could see my own body sleeping but I could not open my eyes - because I wasn't inside. I have never told anyone about these things.
My mother also has had psychic visions and dreams. She tells people about them and everyone thinks she's crazy.

How do you know if you truely are "indigo". If you are, then what are you supposed to do about it? If your children are, then how can you nurture this? I have to say that I have not experienced anything special lately and, even before hearing about the "indigo children", I had often wondered if I had some ability that I had lost because it was not properly nurtured.

Thank You.