Thanks for your response. I am sitting here denying things to myself but there is a clear indication that something is not quite right with this woman. Your response helped, especially the spoilt child part and the learned response with lack of reward.
I have read so much information on this and she fits into a lot of what I see here.
The reason I think what I do this time is I had an encounter with another woman. This time it was cery intense and over very quickly before I becamse attached but she exhibited certain traits and now I believe that these are some traits I am attracted to and were attracted to is this woman I describe.
So more and more signs point to yes, not just from her behaviour but from mine. I am not an inverted N or a Co-D. I think I am a caring person. As soon as I didn't feel like I was getting anything back red flags went up. My downfall was investing in thinking I could.
If you have any response for me again. Id appreciate it otherwise I appreciate your 1st..