Hang in there - Luella is putting some good info together for you and should have it by early on tomorrow I imagine. EFT is always a good option to look at for both anxiety and depression. There is a post on it here a page back or so.
It would be helpful if you gave a bit more information about the symptoms you are having with the hiatal hernia. It is likely that there are a number of things you can do to relieve and even eliminate some or all of the symptoms, but it may take surgery to actually repair the problem. Western allopathic medicine is quite good at repairing broken and damaged parts. It is when they get out the prescription pads that we run into problems.