what to do????

this may not be the correct forum but,

as some of you are aware from reading my previous posts, my mother has MS.
i have done stacks of research, tracked down doctors and dentists all trained in Amalgam related problems, it looked promising that something could be done but now..... my dad has changed his mind again and now says that we cant put my mother through the pain of having her fillings removed on some mystical whim that i boiled up. initially the cost of having a consultation with the doctor i have located was apparently too much so i had to go away and see if it could be done ourselves.. short answer from me was "not advisable". as far as i was concerned we need a qualified Amalgam free practitioner, he lives 30 houses up from my dads house and charges £98 for the consultation (i couldnt have made it any easier), im no doctor, with all the research i can do i still wont be able to cover everything. anyway, frustrations aside, the point of this is my dad says that im 2 years too late and should have done this back then, and im only interested in getting my fillings out thats why i did all the research which means, i dont know, but if i can somehow get my mums health bk enough for her to have the procedure done then, well i dont know, i just cant give up.
do you think i can take care of any vit/min deficiencies and see some results or am i fighting a lost cause???
or do you know of any non prescription non toxic meds that may help.

thanks for reading

james.