Well, I'm impressed! A woman who gets it! Welcome to the "Winner's Club"! Let me be the first one to congratulate you on realizing what a loser the guy was and thinking with your brain instead of emotions. That's tough to do in this age of "I don't want to hurt his feelings...blah, blah, blah". Hurt his feelings...dump him on his A**, baby! You deserve better. Don't ever again settle for mediocre. Your 3-year investment may be the best thing you'll ever experience. Know why? You actually learned WHAT NOT TO LOOK FOR IN A GUY. Go to the movies tonight, and a little dinner...on me.