Re: Please help me, I am having the worst time of my life
"I was doing the LBB barefoot herbalist cleansing pills for a week or so before this all started."
Sounds like you stirred up something (read detox) and the emotional problems with your boyfriend exacerbated it. Many people have emotional detox reactions. Also the pause on the birth control may have played havoc with your hormones, which is resolving once you restarted it. If it continues to give you headaches, you can ask for a different prescription.
You can resume the LBB and see if that kicks whatever it stirred up out once and for all, or you can just let time pass and hope your body handles it.
In the meantime, up your magnesium to bowel tolerance, as magnesium is very calming. Other calming things are Theanine (in green tea), DL-Phenylanaline, gotu kola, and kava kava, if you have any of those around.
Anxiety in boyfriend issues is classic. I had it so bad once, exacerbated by a boyfriend problem that I could not even stand in a grocery line. I started calling anxiety my "devil" and told it to get behind me. Only took a couple of weeks to get it under control that way. Addiction to a guy is not helpful - not saying you are addicted to him, but if you are, it doesn't help anxiety problems.
Emotional problems and physical problems are so linked that it is sometimes impossible to tell the root cause. Maybe spend some time in thought to see.
Good luck. I wish you peace.