yes i agree with all and everything you said....busy is key...she has a lot of great friends and some not so great......she is very limited in what she can and can not do..and knows not to cross the line...my biggest problem with her right now is her grades......she was always a A/B STUDENT....FOR SOME REASON THIS YEAR THE GIRL HAS NO INTREST AT ALL...does not try..just threw int he towel...i was horrified when i seen her last reportcard....two d and a f......granted the marks that she got these in were no biggie subjects .......(didnt let her know that)but still they should of never been... they were effort less subjects......gym....who gets a d in gym???? that is just a matter of changing your clothes is all. i know she is not using drugs....she just dont care....point blank....she only has three more years left of school before she out.... i guess my question is how do you motavate and unmotavated kid???????????????????