Wow, I can't imagine the grief you must feel over not being able to be with your children. That would be worse than death for me. I feel very bad for you Mom. I hope you start feeling good, physically, soon.
When I had my teeth removed, the dentist pulled out a wisdom tooth along with 12 others. They were all that was left. And, it really didn't hurt and my mouth healed very well. I was surprised because it was like cutting your arm off without anesthetics having my teeth pulled or filled before. You are right about the gut determining the health of your gums. I have had a bad gut and liver and pancreas and intestines for a very long time but I am coming to grips with it and will defeat it. These monsters will not get the best of me, I will win.
I think once we get all of these flukes out we will start feeling allot better. I started my Neem and Para Cleanse yesterday so I am excited to see what comes out now, lol.