I'm sure it's annoying and uncomfortable. If you are having OBs this often, are you taking any antiviral meds like acyclovir or valtrex? If not, why not. The antivirals are very safe and effective.
If you've only had this for 2 months, I can almost guarantee that it's going to get better. Your immune system is still adjusting to dealing with herpes and will definitely get better at it.
Are you sure that herpes is the only thing going on? Often there are other things that show up like BV, Bacterial Vaginosis. You might go back to your doc for some additional testing. You were diagnosed by testing, I hope. A visual diagnosis is not at all accurate.