Re: sex after herpes

Congratulations on your marriage. I've been there, too, dating and having genital herpes, but nobody that I dated had herpes and nobody ran away when I told them.

I'm now married, too, to a woman who does not have herpes of either type as determined by a recent HerpeSelect IgG test for types 1&2. We've been together for several years.

My suggestion is that people not restrict themselves to only dating others with herpes, but everyone is different and will do what they are comfortable with.

There are other herpes oriented dating sites that, if that's what you're looking for.  A new one is Club462.com.

Another is Positive Singles.

Meet People With Herpes (MPWH) has been around for quite a few years.