Perhaps if we never learned to love and to accept unconditional love, then maybe Love so terrifies us that we flee for another round of time, flesh, and death.
Perhaps we so prefer our own will, our own scheme of things, that we rebel and choose to "fall" into this plane of existence rather than to accept the utter joy and freedom in the Perfection of God/Love/Yah. These are just thoughts...I am still seeking not so much for answers but understandings...