Thanks for sharing your thoughts and beliefs, here is what I believe and why:
Yes Praise Him! Thank you, that God is not a have a dual personality. He does not cause evil things to happen to man. Man does that quite fine all by himself. You see right at the beginning God gave Man his own free will. Which means we as humans have a choice in how we behave and act.
You say, that God planned for people to die that day; but God does not plan people's deaths. For example:
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2 Peter 3:9
9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
Ezekiel 18
32For I have no pleasure in the death of one who dies," says the Lord GOD. "Therefore turn and live!"
Psalm 91: 7-12 & 16
7 A thousand may fall at your side,
ten thousand at your right hand,
but it will not come near you.
8 You will only observe with your eyes
and see the punishment of the wicked.
9 If you make the Most High your dwelling-
even the LORD , who is my refuge-
10 then no harm will befall you,
no disaster will come near your tent.
11 For he will command his angels concerning you
to guard you in all your ways;
12 they will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone
16 With long life will I satisfy him
and show him my salvation."
Proverbs 1:24-33
24 Because I have called, and ye refused; I have stretched out my hand, and no man regarded;
25 But ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof:
26 I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your fear cometh;
27 When your fear cometh as desolation, and your destruction cometh as a whirlwind; when distress and anguish cometh upon you.
28 Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer; they shall seek me early, but they shall not find me:
29 For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the LORD:
30 They would none of my counsel: they despised all my reproof.
31 Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices.
32 For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, and the prosperity of fools shall destroy them.
33 But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil.
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I think you get my point, if it says in God's word that with long life He will satisfy, and that his angels surround me in protection, and that we shall dwell safely in his refuge. It sounds to me like God is planning our life and not our death. The
Bible says that if you choose God, then you choose life.
I believe God is Love - and because He is Love, He can do us no harm, only good. Satan came to steal, kill and destroy. Jesus came that we might have life and have it more abundantly.
Blessings!