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Hello....
I'd like an opinion...or as many opinions as possible...
I'm a divorced mother of two... On Friday my oldest son had a eye doctor appt... Long story short... the optometrist was very good looking...or at least I thought so...I flirted a bit... said it was friday night that the office should be serving cocktails instead of having the lil bowl of candy in the waiting room... the optometrist seemed to flirt back....anyway.. i called the office when i got home and asked the receptionist if he was single .. she said yes .. although he was dating someone... it wasnt serious...I'm not sure how she would know that..anyway...
Heres the question... I was thinking of dressing a bit more nicely.. but not overdone... and going back up to the office and introducting myself.. and telling him i thought he was very friendly ... and if he finds himself wanting to contact me for a cup of coffee or such... and give him my phone number... DOES THAT SOUND TOO FORWARD ? YOUR OPINION ... GUYS WOULD YOU BE FLATTERED OR WOULD YOU THINK IT WAS TOO FORWARD ?
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ithinktoomuchthereforeiamaloneThis is a reply to # 594,851DeeAnn,
It all depends on how you go about it. To make a trip specially
to the office to give him your number, while dressing any differently than you were the first time... if it were me, I would think you were interested in one of two things.
Now, if you dress casually, as I assume you were the first time you met, and you happen to be in the neighborhood, and I mean really just happen to be there... not just using an over used line, then sure. I say go for it.
How the receptionist knew he was dating but not seriously... people talk. Especially in a close work enviroment.
Good Luck,
-Thinker
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This is a reply to # 594,852Well what I mean by dressing any different was instead of jeans perhaps a pair of khakis....and yes I would like to go out with him .. if hes not in a seroius relationship... I dont plan to show up in a ballroom gown... just normal casual type clothes and introduce myself.. as we werent introduced in the office...I thought perhaps he might be flattered to know that i made a special trip to give him my number.... I go by the office everyday... < i live in a small town> so i wouldnt be going out of my way....perhaps he might think I'm too pushy... thanks for the input...- Re: Men.... your opinion please ithinktoomuchthereforeiamalone
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ithinktoomuchthereforeiamaloneThis is a reply to # 594,853DeeAnn,
I didn't mean to discourage you. I say go for it.
What's the worse that could happen?
I just didn't want you to get all dressed up and go
find him.
For me, the more a woman is just "herself" the more
I am attracted to her... I can't stand women, or men
who feel like they have to act any differently just
because they want to impress.
Go, be yourself, smile, and have fun...
either way, you will have learned something
for use later.
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This is a reply to # 594,856Thanks Thinker... I've lost a bit of my nerve... maybe it comes from turning 42 on Saturday... sometimes I think I'm too old for this whole "dating" thing... i was with my ex hubby for 20 years... so I'm not used to what the "rules" are these days...I have always been myself .. i agree .. and had no intention of " dolling up" .. that just not me... i just wanted to put my best casual foot forward... Well I'm trying to work up the nerve... thanks again ....- Re: Men.... your opinion please ithinktoomuchthereforeiamalone
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ithinktoomuchthereforeiamaloneThis is a reply to # 594,857DeeAnn,
I understand "starting over". It takes a while to get back
into the swing of things... but once there, it is easier
than you think.
and age has nothing to do with it... (o:
I will let you in on a little secret...I dated a woman who was 42 when I was 19. Take that however you wish... *wink*
but I think the rule of the day is just be yourself.
-Thinker
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This is a reply to # 594,851Personally, I'd be really flattered! I'm a really really REALLY shy guy so I hardly ever manage to get up to courage to go and talk to women. Theres this whole thing where men should do the asking etc... which I find to be immensely irritating. I'd love it if a girl came up to me and struck up a conversation. Go for it, you have much more to gain than to lose.
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This is a reply to # 594,859Thanks N....
I have to go to the bank tomorrow and will be going by his office... I'm going to go in and properly introduce myself and tell him if he would like to have coffee or lunch sometime to give me a call...the reason I say coffee or lunch is I feel its less pressure......I'm really nervous .. but I guess I have nothing to lose....maybe he will call... maybe not....I'll let you and Thinker know what happens.. keep your fingers crossed.....
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This is a reply to # 594,861Well... I did it....I went to his office and introduced myself.. and said... coffee or lunch sometime if he would like...so i guess we will see....
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This is a reply to # 594,862I am a woman, so I hope you don't mind my responding, but I say "Right on!" How very cool and confident and casual. There is something powerful about boldly walking out of our comfort zone. Let us know what happens, even if it's just you and your 'new' self.
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This is a reply to # 594,862DeeAnn:
I’ve been watching your posts for some time now and I think it’s really great that you have such assertiveness. It’s wonderful. Maybe guys are supposed to ask first, but if you wait for them to make the first move, you might be waiting forever.
There are a lot of guys that are waiting and hoping that some wonderful lady will make the first move. Please keep posting and let everyone know how it’s going. I will be waiting and very interested in hearing what happens.
I wish you the very best in your new relationship.
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This is a reply to # 594,851Never read too much into a doctor or professional type being too nice or "flirty"...that's what we do! It's part of how we like to operate. Women making the first moves is the best, and if you look good and can pull it off definately go back for more. But make a realistic evaluation of you and him. Is it a good match? Can you stack up? He sees plenty of good-looking patients on a regular basis. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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This is a reply to # 594,869Well as I said.. I did go to his office.. and give him my number ... he seems very pleasent.... No call yet... but thats OK....his co-worker did say he was seeing someone... even though its not serious... I feel I did all I can do... nothing ventured .. nothing gained....
- DeeAnn, Bravo! just_peachy
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This is a reply to # 594,883Fantastic! You gathered up your courage, faced your fears, and stepped on out there!
Whether he calls or not is actually secondary. YOU just took a really big step forward and don't you forget it!
It'll get easier from here. Just be yourself and focus on what is best to make you your best and everything else will fall in place. And no, that's not self-centered - your health, physical, mental, emotional, the whole package is the best present you can give yourself. When you're healthy and comfortable in your own skin, it shines through and helps people be more comfortable around you. Like a simple smile can pass from soul to soul improving everyone's day just a little.
Anywhich, it's scary getting back into the whole scene again after many years comfortably sitting out of the game. Congratulations for going for it, well done, Bravo!
{and if he doesn't call, it's his loss! ;) }- Re: DeeAnn, Bravo! DeeAnn
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This is a reply to # 594,891Thanks for the kudos .....No call... But its ok... perhaps its just as well....Since my divorce Ive had only one serious relationship.... and he dumped me after telling me he wanted to marry me... I guess he changed his mind...anyway.... I never did much care for the dating scene...Hated it when I was younger .. and hate it now that I'm older....anyway... I have my 2 sons to keep me busy....that will have to do... take care all... and thanks again...
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