I'm very sorry to read of this. You are very articulate for your age, and I'm going to respond appropriately.

First - you are not responsible for the choices that your father is making. If he is doing something that is wrong, you would not be sending him to jail, dear heart. His own actions will result in whatever consequences he experiences.

Second - you don't "let" your father do anything. He does what he does because he CAN, and making you feel responsible for HIS actions is very typical of abusers. You aren't "guilty" of anything. It's a terrible, terrible abuse of trust when someone that we depend upon to care for us does bad things and tries to blame us for their choices and actions. You are NOT at fault, on any level.

Third - the only way to make him stop is to tell someone. You didn't mention your mother, so it may be that you wouldn't feel comfortable telling her. Once you make the decision to tell someone what's happening, many things will follow, and it's not going to be easy. But, you'll no longer be a victim and become a Survivor. You don't deserve this. You don't. And, I realize that you love your father, but he's messed up and he needs to be stopped. There will be lots of support for you in the way of counseling, etc.

Talk to your school counselor, your teacher, or someone that you trust. Tell them what is happening so that you will be safe and begin recovering and healing from this most heinous of all betrayals.

Sites to visit:
www.thehotline.org
www.rainn.org

My very brightest blessings to you.

I'm 14, so around your age. When I was younger, my cousins began to 'touch' me, and it got worse. I'm not saying yours will, but please don't 'let' him touch you, he's your farther and shouldn't.. Its not his place, your body belongs to you and your loved one...
I know you love him, but stop him, it'll be hard I know but you need to be strong. I was once in your prosition ( but with my cousins ) which where 18 at the time and I was 6, I never said no and it went on for 6 years..
I told my mum, and your mum will never ever judge you, they will always care.
The police never had to get involved.
Please get him to stop..
It's not natural..

Always here for a talk just message me

God bless

I have the same message for you, but deal with him first before dragging others into it. You need to be strong because horny creeps will be trying to force themselves on you for the rest of your life. This is your first test as a woman, to say NO!

Just tell him, "NO WAY STOP IT OR ELSE:"
I'll tell mom
I'll tell the school principal
I'll call the police
Don't let him intimidate you.

Hope this helps,
Grizz

please tell your mom, siblings, friends, teachers, call 911.. anyone you can.

This is a very traumatic experience for a child to experience. Your mom may be hesitant and will try and place the blame on you. Realize that this is not your fault at all. This falls on your parents for not being responsible and protective enough.

Good Luck!

Tell him that you will see to it he goes to jail if it happens again.