You know, I was considering doing exactly that, and the fact that I felt nervous/wierd about that is an indication of what I really think! I've decided not to risk trouble. It's not worth it.

Yeah, I'm thinking you're definitely right, especially considering our other conversation. I've decided to go with your advice and not flirt with trouble, so to speak.

Hanna,

You are wise and good. :) Since I read your post, I couldn't help reflecting over and over again that it is good for the ego. Yes, this is highly about my ego. I like the attention, particularly since I'm taking care of myself and don't get the sexua| attention at home so much. Hubby is used to me but if I were single I could totally go cougar if I wanted! lol.

I'm completely over it. Part of it was that I'm in a new location and need to make friends, but I have a new gal to hang out so I'll be pursing that. Thanks for all your help!

Thanks,
Six-Two-Eight-Four-Five

for all the women out there, just so you know the score. when a guy offers to take you to lunch, he wants in your pants. take that to the bank. lol...i know exactly why we do this so don't doubt me. lunch is when he's looking for the opening. if you had a flowchart for every screw a guy's had in his life, i'll betcha 8 out of 10 charts start at the bottom with lunch somewhere.