You are wise and good. :) Since I read your post, I couldn't help reflecting over and over again that it is good for the ego. Yes, this is highly about my ego. I like the attention, particularly since I'm taking care of myself and don't get the sexua| attention at home so much. Hubby is used to me but if I were single I could totally go cougar if I wanted! lol.
I'm completely over it. Part of it was that I'm in a new location and need to make friends, but I have a new gal to hang out so I'll be pursing that. Thanks for all your help!