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Sexual Wisdom
A Chapter from
The Seven Love Cures Book
Date: 7/10/2005 7:07:17 PM ( 19 y ) ... viewed 1736 times This is a Chapter written this morning
from The Seven Loves Cure Book
This is © 2005, Leslie Goldman.
Feedback welcome.
goes with this poem;
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and with this poem;
goddess coming;
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This work is copyright. It is from my
forthcoming book. I am sharing it because I
trust you to honor that my writings are
my livelihood and allow me to give you more.
Your Enchanted Gardener, July 10, 05
8:25 AM
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From the Chapter
Coming and Letting Go
from The Seven Love Cures.
by Your Enchanted Gardener
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One of the rules The Dancer taught me was
“Come but do not leave anything behind!”
it took years for me to understand
fully this Lesson. I learned it from Lover.
“Come and Let Go!” “Come and Let Go!”
I am finally understanding, finally getting it.
From Memoirs of the World’s Greatest Lovers.
July 10, 05
THE SEVEN LOVE CURES BOOK
From the Intro to The Seven Love Cures Book:
I have never had the gift of being married.
A part of me longs to be pregnant with a woman
and touch her belly as the baby comes to life. As a gardener,
I thrill to be one with seeds growing, but my inner
seeds have never gone the distance inside a woman.
The advantage, on the other hand, is that
in never being married, and coming to know
and understand deeply some of the most
remarkable women on Earth, I am in a position
to help other men understand lessons
that are essential for a happy marriage.
A well known doctor I admire calls the
Seven Love Cures Alimony Insurance.
he says they should be part of a workshop called
“Mind Your Assets!” I am happy to say
that Your Enchanted Gardener has saved him
a bunch of bucks over the years. The price
has been a small--somewhere around $50.00 for
the laminated versions of The Seven Love Cures.
Divorce: $5000.00?
The Seven Love Cures $50.00?
You choose.
Of course, The Seven Love Cures have other
applications.
They are time tested. I have multiple case
cases of couples who would like to meet and embrace.
I will ask the man if I might be his Enchanted Gardener.
I ask the woman if she will allow him to enter the close
space of her Aura. I say the words. He repeats them
aloud into her ear. Within three minutes or less,
the entire chemistry between them has shifted.
You will find photos of this here in the book
to demonstrate what I am saying.
No, I have never been married,
or had human kids out of my body;
My Poems are my Babies.
I cannot say that I am a good father.
I tend to hold on.
It has taken me a Lifetime
of pain and trauma-drama to understand the lesson
that Lover is teaching me now,
The Lesson is “Come and Let Go!”
“Come and Let Go!”
The well known author Gray goes so far as to
say that Women and Men come from different planets.
I would not go so far. I would say, different parts of
the garden. The garden is consciousness.
Men and Woman are not intended to think alike.
They are anatomically different in body parts.
That is what makes relationship so
exquisitely joyfuland painful.
Pain is part of birth. Every mother knows the
pain of birth, and sometimes the pain of in her
monthly menstrual cycle when hormones are out of whack.
Pain does not equate with suffering.
Suffering is part of holding on to narrow places.
Pain is part of Life. Suffering is optional.
The Seven Love Cures and This Love Cures Book
you are reading now, have an intention.
Our Mother Earth is asking that we each be her
World’s Greatest Lover. This is the only way
we will outgrow war and suffering.
This is the only way we will get back to the Labor
intensive joy of gardening, and coming to see
gardening as a full body and whole being expression
of being alive and coming into harmony
with our Soul in Soil.
The great master of Traditional Chinese Medicine Sexuality,
Felis Dunas, speaks about the anatomy of women
and men this way: The birth canal of a woman’s body
has specific areas that coincide with her internal organs.
The same goes for the male lingum. Various movements
and rhythms stimulate and create pressure points that
activate different organs. This is based on 5000 years
of Chinese Wisdom.
The heart of a woman is touched when a man
goes deep inside her. The heart of a man is touched
when a woman caresses the tip of his sexua| organ.
The birth canal is by nature, not only an anatomical
map but a map of consciousness. The Woman “hooks”
the man first. His heart can be easily aroused if she
knows what she is doing and approaches “The Subject”
with a bit of gusto and authentic Self indulgence.
The Woman on the other hand opens fully and has her heart touched as trust is culvitated and sustained. The cause
of heart disease among women traces to this.
Women, in their innocence, will allow their heart
to be touched. She lets the man inside deeply,
often too quickly, but unless a man can sustain her trust
through deep listening and inviting her to express herself
in every aspect of her Truth, he is causing her physical damage.
It is the responsibilty of a woman to choose a man
who can listen without cutting her off.
I cannot say how many times I have experienced
a woman changing her mind and position,
once she is fully heard. This is natural. What was
defended is now again open.
A mature woman has seasons of sexua| activity.
It is natural for a woman to have times
when she does not want to be entered.
It is natural for her to have times when she
will not imagine she will ever be allowing you to
enter her again...and yet the wisest of women
use the phrase...”This is how I feel NOW!”
“Now!” is where the feminine dwells
in Her Goddess essence.
The Goddess, the spirit behind a woman, has Her own rules
that cannot be understood without wisdom.
A woman filled with the Goddess should not
be held to what she says when she is in the altered
state of sexua| activity. I would go so far as to
say, it is a manipulation on the part of a man
to ask a woman to make agreements of any kind
when she is in heightened states of sexua| pleasure.
A mature woman becomes Goddess incarnate
in the act of love making.
Her responsibility is to her own orgasm.
Her responsibility is to her pleasure.
Her responsibility is to receive the divine
energy of the male, take it in, and then
give it back.
She is in her primal animal mode if she
is any good at sex. She is in her open mode.
She is her a Divine mode.
A man is in total error and misconception
if he expects a woman to be accountable
for what she has said during heightened pleasure.
What she said belongs to that moment.
Dunas as well speaks about the chemistry of love making.
In the early stages, the partners yearn for each other.
This is a physical as well as emotional response.
Nature intends this. Then, beyond the “honeymoon”
stage that can last sometimes up to two years,
the body chemistry changes.
Now a Man is asked to develop a higher consciousness
to still be in harmony with the Birth Canal.
The Birth Canal IS the Birth Canal.
One of The Seven Love Cures is called
“Love Her Always.”
It speaks to a woman being forever pregnant.
“As a maiden she will charm you.
She is intended to secuse you into being
the best possible you. She has what it takes.
Love her no matter what and you wil be pregnant
with unending newness.”
Once the chemistry of attraction disapates,
and this is a biochemical reaction, then Wisdom
must step in.
Wisdom comes from the application of Knowledge
to experience. Sex wisdom comes from
a lot of joy as well as pain.
The Soul is the equivalent of a Seed,
and the Seed of the Soul desires to be planted
on earth. This in essence is what is called
Soul Growth. The Soul is already in perfection.
It is an portion of God. The Soul desires to
come to earth, and the lessons of Love draw it present.
Some people do not know what to do with the friction
of relationship. They enjoy the friction of love making.
It takes Wisdom to understand that it is natural
for men and women not to see eye to eye
at all times. They are not intended to see eye to eye.
A good relationship from the Soul’s viewpoint
is to do whatever necessary for the Seed of the Soul
to be planted in the physical
reality through the connection both sexua| partners.
I once heard a woman speak about her successful marriage.
She was a mother of two children, and she called her marriage good.
One of the rules of their marriage was to know
what “plugged” each other in, accept this, and not trigger
each other. In their marriage this produced harmony.
Other relations have other harmonies or disharmonies
that are appropriate to the two Souls involved
and their Soul intention for being together.
The purpose behind every relationship is
ultimately helping each other's personal growth.
This inspires Soul growth. This ensures that the Earth
will one day again become the Enchanted Garden.
Why celebrate the honeymoon, and not the lessons
of a maturing relationship?
Why make the mature lessons of growth
of an ideal relationship miserable? The ideal
relationship for the Soul point of view is have both
sexual partners find the strength to
do their own inner work so they can learn
the lessons that are a byproduct of the pleasuse.
Why not come to understand the sexua| seasons
of a woman, and respect these
as she is asked to do?
Some women complain that men only like them
when they are young and beautiful, as a maiden.
“Woman is a keeper from beginning to end”
“Love Her Alwaysm” the poem "Love her Always" says.
This is another of The Seven Love Cures.
http://www.lesliegoldman.com/Worlds_Greatest_Lovers/id41.htm
The Tag line here is,
to stay in harmony with a woman’s sexua| seasons asks Wisdom.
I hope you enjoy The Seven Love Cures and read them often.
They are words that men need to know and
women want to hear.
They are words that will allow a woman to allow you into her body without causing her diseases of the heart.
“I am here to listen. I grow when your
heart speaks.”
“I am your forever friend.”
Knowing you is not about getting anything,
having anything, but feeling, for my own
good, my feelings.”
--lines from “Soulmates”
one of The Seven Love Cures.
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Messages from Lover,
July 9, 05
Your Enchanted Gardener:
"I appreciate very much you responding
with such honesty and maturity a day or so ago in your last email.
It was healing in many ways."
"This communication you have made here,
fills me with great joy and inspiration."
Lover:
haven't forgotten all of that love-making we did over the years,
just 'cause I'm not finding a need for it right now!
I was truly surprised to read these words in your e-mail yesterday!
I wrote this in my journal:
"What fallout? The guy is amazing!
I'm expecting him to shun me and he doesn't!"
I am just astounded by the amount of love you put into that e-mail,
I could feel it as I read it. I am so glad you did not take anything I wrote as a criticism or rejection of you, as I was concerned that you would.
Lover:
I really appreciate this! There is definitely a poem in this:
What you wrote, that is quoted below, are very much poems:
Your Enchanted Gardener:
"You do not have to be like me.
I do not have to be like you.
I do not want you to be like me.
I want you to be like you.
The very act of being different--diverse---
allows us the Gift of learning to be Whole."
Lover:
Thank you for being you! Thank you for being my friend! I love you.
July 9, 05
I understand you wrote a poem to me, and that you lost it.
I hope the "lost" poem comes to you again, I'd like to read it.
You are right,
I can't remember a thing of what I said in an "altered state"
A New Poem:
http://curezone.com/blogs/m.asp?f=92&i=507
July 9, 05
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