He's got you wrapped around his little finger and he throws you crumbs and you bend down to pick them up lke they are diamonds. "I thought you would sneak" is NOT a compliment worthy of you his wife to be. He's so happy because he pulled off the big one and blamed it on you and you bought every word of it and he's getting to stay single and have you doing exactly whatever he wants because he's got you believing you're the problem. Nice control tactic. From now on, he can just dangle the marriage carrot and you'll jump as high as he wants and now he knows you won't even have any return expectations from him. Good thing, too since he wasn't going to offer to quit his own drinking, not even to help you stop. Why not make him call everyone to cancel the plans since he's so supportive and you're struggling with quitting drinking? Geez--When you decide to not settle, you won't settle. Know you are worth more than this. Good luck.