what you speak about is impossible...It really all comes down to self acceptance, learning to be content; i.e. make your satisfaction...

the reason is because humans get all their self-worth and acceptance from other humans.  we are social and therefore stuck in the human condition.  the problem is who is in charge of it and that is big business and government and it shouldn't be because they don't build us up so we thrive, they beat us down and and poison us and brainwash us so we are happy to be a part of it all.

  http://curezone.com/blogs/c/c.asp?d=15775

but it is good to like yourself and only respond to those who like you.  you cannot make everyone happy.  if no one likes you or agrees with you, well then you have problems and some people just commit suicide.  so, gaining acceptance from other humans is a very big deal.  man does not live on bread alone.  you need nurturing from the beginning, first from your parents, then from others.  once you have established yourself with others, then, you can learn to ignore those who don't like you.  some people pick the wrong people and end up bad people.