Re: Dogma defined; The "group dogma thing" is the problem.

Hi, Karlin

Dogma is the way of a tribal society that you and I, and countless others, are growing out of. We don't need it anymore. We are transitioning from a tough physical survival to one that can support broader spiritual life. We have questioned the contradictory dogmatic beliefs, listened to our hearts, and have a different answer. Love, individuality, freedom, support, acceptance of all, embracing, etc.

You say "Without respect for each one of us, there will continue to be conflict.". What I hear from that is that 'we' must gain 'their' respect for resolution. I don't see this happening. They have thick walls surrounding them. I question, how are you asking for this respect? Are you demanding? That's not gonna get too far and will play right into the conflict.

Want to end war? Lay down your guns. That's the only true resolution I can think of. Two can't fight if only one is engaged.

Yes, this may mean loss and pain for him that lays down his arms. Actually, I would like to think if we can do it without loss and pain. We should question that. Maybe there's another way.

Back to what I was saying, we may have to be willing to suffer the consequences of laying down our arms, know what I mean? Because the only true way to lead is by example.

When you are the one standing, surviving, living in content, and others are in conflict, who do you think they will turn to? They will want 'your' way, which is accepting and peaceful.

We do not have to 'fight' the enemy. That only brings stronger resistance, as you say. We must embrace him, accept him, and make ourselves open to him. We don't have to cram our viewpoints down their throat. When are you more susceptible to listening to someone: when they are yelling at you? Or when they are calm with you and there is honest interest?

What we accept in others is a reflection of what we accept in ourselves. And by the way I am experiencing this on a personal level myself. And there's plenty wanting my acceptance!

Love,
Lori