Good for you. There's a big difference between becoming a scout leader
or even a supervisor than "having" to be in charge of family and
neighbors.
Dr. Phil's philosophy and mine have parted ways a long time ago when he made
a statement that the New Testament says that the "man" is the head of
the household and the wife has to be submissive. He quoted one of Paul's
messages and I know for a fact that about 60-70% of Paul's writings are not
Paul's but are forgeries. Dr. Phil also fails to acknowledge spirit as in
you and everyone else on the Planet are an eternal spirit.
In Korea we didn't have to dig latrines. While in the trench you simply
peed right where you are at. If you had to poo you waited until dawn when
we exited the trench (the Chinese we faced only fought at night - Americans have
horrible night vision) and there were outhouses set up with 55 gallon oil drums
for that convenience.