Re: how to heal a broken heart

Time and patience with yourself

You might welcome your children to your home and if your wife is "provable" partying (or perhaps a wee bit of jealousy) than try and get custody.

Does your HR manager at work know you are going through a rough patch? It may be worthwhile to take adur source of income, avantage of an EAP program for grief, anger, divorce groups- if this is available

just think how resentful you will feel if your grief and anger loses you your job

And you may take family leave if it is offered in your state to care for your children and be with them.

Divorce is messy and so is marriage and oft times life is messy and hard to understand why one's best was not good enough for the scoundrel one married (;})

The truth is all that is not serving is peeling away. God has a plan but our anger and resentments separates us from our soul or source.

This is the meaning of sin- it blocks out true nature or our true reason for being here

It will get beetter and it will get worse, and accepting it and greiving is allyou can do, aside from getting some professional help- it is not clear if you have availability to such at work

Be kind to yourself and have ocmpassion for the feeling that may feel like you are less than, or have missed the boat

One of my clients an elderly man said to me one "Zaza-I've missed plenty of boats"

Me too, perhaps they were not our boat?

I am sending you support and love
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