"Relationship is the final frontier of
Personal Growth." Robert Camp interviews!
This really shifted my reality!!!
Date: 7/6/2007 1:02:52 AM ( 17 y ) ... viewed 2844 times
"Relationship is the final frontier of
Personal Growth."
--Robert Lee Camp with guest
"At first there is bliss,
and then there is stuff."
--Joseph Malinak
Incredibly Powerful Relationship Talk
from Internet Radio..
that helps develop the skills
to be healthy in relationship.
What is Self Love?
R: What is the concept of loving our self?
Self love is a practice of seeing myself clearly
and embracing who I am
rather than resisting aspects of my self,
being willing to bring unconscious things conscious.
Example:
For many years I had a rage problem
really intense anger problem.
it was like like there was no time and space
between what stimulated me and the response.
IT was an automatic response.
I started looking at how I felt when I was anger.
I went a little deeper.
I starting creating a space between the stimulus and response.
Situations would come up that would make me feel inadequate.
In practicing, taking a breathe
when I got angry,
and feeling how I was feeling below the anger,
then I stared feeling the inadequacy,
then after a while I could skip the anger,
and I could feel the inadequacy below.
This was the issue below.
Now what was making me feel angry.
I would get angry...
then I had an awareness about it.
I would investige it before
dumping it on my partner.
The way i say it,
I would feel my feelings.
We all have the ability to
Develop a discipline
and practice and have that ability.
R: By exploring feelings, we have had a lot of breakthrough.
Maybe all the hurts in the world,
all the bad things come from people
being unwilling to feel things that they do not want to feel,
and have them go into anger and blame.
Taking responsibility for my feelings....
J: As I learn the basis of my anger,
I realized it was in me,
and not the other person.
Did it take a long time?
J: It is a lifetime path.
but even the first step gives freedom, brings choices
that are unbelievably.
The first thing I allow was to feel my feeling.
but it does not take long to see below,
and ask....
what is belong this...
This doesn't have anything to do with my wife.
Always it has something to do with myself.
Then, I would go out and say,
This is what I learned about myself.
I took a sense of responsibility for our feelings
This is an essential part,
to the fulfilling,
dynamic, ever growing relationship.
This creates a higher quality of relationship.
IF I am not victimized by my partner,
(victimized by partner:
Making them the cause of my feelings...)
then I can appreciate the magficents of my partner
and allow my partner to go further into her greatness.
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Here is the radio program...
I have listened to in numbers of times.
If I am victimixed by my partner,
I tend to stuff them.
This is going to cause them to be stored away
as water building up rehind a damn.
The second component....
The Will....
When we say I will make this work....
Our Will carries us through the rough times.
Stayed in the relationship and made it work.
No matter what your karma is,
if you want to have a great relationship
you can have one.
Once we know our self,
we have an opportunity to have
a good relationship....
Once we know our self,
and know ourself,
we can embrace our partner.
We can move from self knowledge....
Always had a desire to have a good relationship--Joseph
You were on automatic....
push a button...after so many women...
would move away...as you started working
on underlying feelings and beliefs that
had you on automatic, then you had choices....
you decided not to respond as you responded.
--Joseph to Robert...
Need to bring Will and Self Knowledge in to
make a Relationship work.
We no longer take it personally...
Everyone can have a perfect relationship....
have to bring in will and self knowledge...
We are each dealt a certain karma at birth...
but the message, if you want a great one, you can have one....
If you want to have a great partner,
you have to be a good partner....
what does that mean Joseph?????
Made sense logically, but not an understanding of what it
really meant... did not make sense....
what it really meant...
If I want to be a good partner,
I have to give myself what I need...
I have to be willing to nurture and love myself
then I come into a relationship as a whole person,
See those things in a different way...
What is this concept of Loving Ourself:
What is Self Love?
it is a process,
a practice of...
This is the INDEX to other internet show by Robert Camp.
Each show begins with a short talk that is quite profound
in the quality of truth.
I am going to identify what the topic is for each
perhaps:
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