"Relationship is the final frontier of Personal Growth." Robert Camp interviews! This really shifted my reality!!!

Date:   7/6/2007 1:02:52 AM ( 17 y ago)

"Relationship is the final frontier of
Personal Growth."

--Robert Lee Camp with guest


"At first there is bliss,
and then there is stuff."
--Joseph Malinak

Incredibly Powerful Relationship Talk
from Internet Radio..
that helps develop the skills
to be healthy in relationship.



What is Self Love?

R: What is the concept of loving our self?

Self love is a practice of seeing myself clearly
and embracing who I am
rather than resisting aspects of my self,
being willing to bring unconscious things conscious.

Example:

For many years I had a rage problem
really intense anger problem.
it was like like there was no time and space
between what stimulated me and the response.
IT was an automatic response.

I started looking at how I felt when I was anger.
I went a little deeper.

I starting creating a space between the stimulus and response.

Situations would come up that would make me feel inadequate.

In practicing, taking a breathe
when I got angry,
and feeling how I was feeling below the anger,
then I stared feeling the inadequacy,
then after a while I could skip the anger,
and I could feel the inadequacy below.

This was the issue below.
Now what was making me feel angry.

I would get angry...
then I had an awareness about it.

I would investige it before
dumping it on my partner.

The way i say it,
I would feel my feelings.

We all have the ability to
Develop a discipline
and practice and have that ability.

R: By exploring feelings, we have had a lot of breakthrough.

Maybe all the hurts in the world,
all the bad things come from people
being unwilling to feel things that they do not want to feel,
and have them go into anger and blame.

Taking responsibility for my feelings....

J: As I learn the basis of my anger,
I realized it was in me,
and not the other person.

Did it take a long time?

J: It is a lifetime path.
but even the first step gives freedom, brings choices
that are unbelievably.

The first thing I allow was to feel my feeling.
but it does not take long to see below,
and ask....
what is belong this...

This doesn't have anything to do with my wife.
Always it has something to do with myself.

Then, I would go out and say,
This is what I learned about myself.

I took a sense of responsibility for our feelings
This is an essential part,
to the fulfilling,
dynamic, ever growing relationship.

This creates a higher quality of relationship.

IF I am not victimized by my partner,
(victimized by partner:
Making them the cause of my feelings...)
then I can appreciate the magficents of my partner
and allow my partner to go further into her greatness.

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Here is the radio program...
I have listened to in numbers of times.


http://curezone.com/blogs/m.asp?f=1103&i=24

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