communication!

Well first of all you have to communicate. You didnt say much in your post so Im not sure if you HAVE been trying and he just isnt recieving, or you just havent tried yet. So two things:

a]he doesnt REALIZE he isnt pleasing you, and hasnt been given a chance to work on it

or

b]you HAVE tried communicating your issues and he simply wants "his" and doesnt care.


Most men want to please a woman...and will gladly listen to any suggestions of how to make sex better. I openly give my boyfriend directions while he is giving me oral sex. He likes it, it helps him learn what feels good to me. Ive been very open about what feels good and what doesnt since the begining.

Of course if its been all this time and you have never spoken up, speaking out would be a bit harder I understand. I still suggest you talk with him. He may think he has been pleasing you this entire time. Tweet