Re: For solutions, problems are defined according to objective and should be sought in CONTEXT.

WOW, Beenthere...it's so odd that you mention the victim's incessant apologizing!!!! I was just speaking with a friend, yesterday, about how I was always apologizing to my abuser for being ill, injured, overcooking eggs, etc.

Very good post and I agree that suggestions and insights shouldn't be cross-posted and, if they are, they should be taken within the context of the entire thread.

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