Today was a relaxed and enjoy the life today. I didn't do much but visit with family and friends what a great support group. I was getting some really wired phone calls from different out of state #'s and didn't think it was him (exBF) and tonight I got another one and I anwered this one and it was him the exbf asking how I was feeling and doing. I didn't recoginize his voice and than he said it was him. I was shocked. I went numb and froze, but we had a very long conversation and it went well. He said he didn't get any papers from me yet and his mother said he should call me just to see how I was and atleast be friends. He did say he thought I was crazy getting all parinoid on stuff and giving him the creeps. I hope the people who read this show your partner cause if you don't he or she may never understand and they may get to the point they won't even care anymore.I am very thankful he called to check up on me before he got the papers instead of "oh, I maybe should just see how she is doing and than not call again". But he could tell the big diference on our conversations we were having like we used to have. He even said he loves me still. He lives out of state so as far as a relationship that won't happen but his friendship is better than anything after what most of us women have been through and how we acted toward our partners caused by the IUD. I can concentrate on what I need to do on a daily basess now. I don't have to write it down on paper anymore. This is so wonderful. I feel like I am crawling out of that black box and seeing all the beautiful colors I forgot anad enjoyed in life. Update you again soon. Peace, love and happiness to all of you.