ok, I have found a great site, for perimenopause and menopause....it's called:
http://www.power-surge.com
... it's an open forum like this, you can post questions and get answers from other members, it's great! They are very caring supportive women there, who've been through all this, or are still experiencing these symptoms we are stuck with, ..... check it out, you won't be disappointed! there is so much info. on perimenopause and menopause, you definatley won't feel alone anymore!