In that moment in time (As I read your post) there was no choice for self either. There is no quality chocolate at hand and neither is their quality sex. This is as I said, not really a choice because I have always abstained from inferior sex though not always inferior chocolate. I feel thatat this particular moment (as I type) I could make a choice to attract love that I am willing to share, then I shall attract some quality choclate and share that also.